Holly CritchleyClaudia Shnier’s one-woman show ‘Split Ends’ is an autobiographical tragi-comedy exploring abusive relationships, coercive control, and our tendencies to cling to the things that hurt us most.
Since debuting at the 2025 Brighton Fringe, the show has continued to evolve with each performance using puppetry and physical theatre to deliver a raw and emotional message alongside its bizarre premise of a woman who falls in love with a hoover.
Claudia talks to Holly Critchley about the catharsis that comes with turning trauma into art and the challenges of confronting her abuse onstage.
Split Ends uses the surreal image of a woman falling in love with a vacuum cleaner. Where did that idea come from?
Claudia: “I’ve always had an OCD compulsion to cut my own hair, and yet this relationship I was in happened to be with the hairiest man in the world. His hairs would shed all over my apartment and I became obsessed with vacuuming them up. But they just kept appearing. My compulsion had transpired into just vacuuming up all his hair, and I realised how the hair grows back and repeats its cycles was such a good metaphor for being stuck in a controlling relationship.”
What kind of relationship were you enduring?
Claudia: “I was in a vulnerable place already when I got into a relationship that quickly became emotionally abusive. The man I was with would pick at my self-esteem, and keep on picking and picking. He would be a bad boyfriend, but if I confronted him on his behaviour, he would have astounding manipulation skills. The more this cycle happened, the more vulnerable I got, and suddenly I could no longer stand up for myself.”
Has performing ‘Split Ends’ so many times changed your understanding of your own experiences?
Claudia: “Definitely. Mainly, performing the piece has validated my experience – what happened to me was abuse, and I wasn’t dramatising it. When I first performed it was the first time that I got clarity. The feedback from the audience was so important. It reminded me that what happened to me shouldn’t have happened and this show wasn’t exploiting that. I didn’t have the proper words for the experience, so performing the show was at first semi for myself to express my emotions. But people would tell me how Split Ends really touched them, so it eventually became less for me and more as a way to connect with other people and validate their experiences of abusive relationships. As more time has passed, I’ve become more detached from the material, which has made it easier to perform than it was in the beginning.”
How do you balance art with heaviness when portraying coercive control on stage?
Claudia: “I use the vacuum and a piece of scissors as a puppet for my abuser. It’s inherently absurd, but it provides some levity too. But I’ve also faced criticism before that the play is too raw or too real, like watching someone go through it in real time.”
What do you hope audiences take away from ‘Split Ends’?
Claudia: “I wasn’t expecting so many people to reach out to me after performances, but so many have told me they experienced something similar and didn’t have the words for it. A lot of people are gaslit to such an extent that they struggle to even identify what happened to them. As heartbreaking as those messages can be, they’ve also shown me how important these conversations are. If the show helps even one person recognise those patterns in their own relationship, then it’s worth doing.”
Split Ends comes to Contact, Manchester on 19 and 20 May 2026.
Carmel Thomason
